Author Of The Book, FREEDOM; The Journey Home. My True Life Story!
Throughout my childhood, I had only known a mother who was constant and her ideals of hard work, has it’s rewarding, became an identification mark of achievement. Never in a million years did I ever think of marketing my beauty or selling my soul to step over anyone, never mind marrying for a convenient life. YET, as I grew into myself and did as I was told; better myself and go after my dreams so I could be an established woman in my own right. Over the years, however, I had become hunted after, not for who I am but for what I could do for these selfish Under Achievers who sell themselves as the amazing unreal characters that did not exist.
Yes, It was not only women who are “Gold Diggers” but more and more these days, younger men market themselves as the prize and go out hunting for women who could further their career or simply just marry for the convenience while these women unbeknownst are their victims. It had been my past of such hunters that had made me realise that what I had achieved with my life, was not available as a business deal that came with a married contract and I had rid my life of such Acquaintances and men hanging on for dear life as if I was their meal ticket. Self-worth is the most incredible feeling of your strength in understanding that I for one was deserving of someone knowing who I was and marry me for the overwhelming reason for not wanting to be without me. Love is about Giving and not expecting to receive. I will never forget the biggest lie ever; “I will give if you give to me”. That is not loving but seeking to use someone else’s life for your gain. What is that worth to anyone? Nothing! And, why would anyone wish to be in a relationship where you have to pay for emotions that are fake?
I am in a Desired relationship where I matter, I come first and nothing is expected of me other than being real with my emotions so my Beloved knows where he stands with me. We have a friendship which makes regular communications easy and much laughter because there are Trust and mutual Respect. But this did not come about with hiding away in shame since I know, my achievements should be the pride of a man who chooses me since he can stand on his own. It is the most amazing feeling in the world when there is no doubt and no agenda, so love feels Free to express and we can grow in common Goals. I have a Purpose and now, I have an amazing Family who supports me. So much more can be accomplished if we live with the reality that life is for living and no need of pretence so we could be of support to others. Giving starts with you and extent to those in your home! Only then do you know, How To Give To Others. Despite all the bad I had to overcome, I found Real Love! Romay Books: http://www.romaybooks.com Like: http://www.facebook.com/Romay6 Follow: http://www.twitter.com/Romay6